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The Infamous White Button Down

Hey loves! Fall is approaching and believe me when I say I’m welcoming it with open arms. I’ve been super busy these days, hence the lack of activity here on the blog, but it was partly due to life obligations i.e work ( I’m hoping one day blogging can fully pay my bills and cover my expenses), and also a lack of motivation. I’ve actually read a few blogs in the last few weeks where bloggers have been stating that in recent times they have not been motivated to write and /or create content and even some Youtube influencers as well. Most of what I post here comes from things I can really relate to and can really feel good about. So for me, it’s not about what’s popular or trending, it’s about what I like.

Living in the Caribbean can be a bit tricky when it comes to seasons and styling. Where as in other regions by the end of summer, a person would be able to fully line up their fall wardrobe and be ready to embrace the cooler weather, here we may experience cooler nights but the days are usually still hot as hell until around end of year. This particular shoot day was both sunny and breezy.

That being said, I did a little prep myself with items I already own and a piece that I received through a collaboration. I partnered with Oh Desire to feature one of its item on the blog. I went through all their pieces and eventually stumble upon this white button down shirt dress with puffy sleeves. I found it in the dress section but being as tall as I am, I styled it as a shirt instead. I paired it with simple Old Navy Jeans and a pair of boots I found on Ebay some months back. I quite liked the crisp lines of the shirt dress and found that my jeans gave it a more edgy look. Not to mention my love for neutrals.

I already have my next blog post lined up, outfit and all, and I do hope I’ll get to shoot some pictures for it as I continue my fall fashion lineup. Comment below your favorite fall finds and outfits. Until next time. Xoxo.

 

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Outfit Deets: Shirt Dress – Oh Desire // Jeans – Old Navy (Old) // Boots – 14th & Union // Bag – Dash Clothing (Sold Out)

 

 

 

Hairy Situation

 

Hey loves! So it’s been a minute but I wanted to share a bit about my hair chronicles because it’s been on my mind for quite sometime.  Regardless of the color, length and even the style of woman’s hair, the one thing we can probably agree on is it’s importance. It’s that thing that occupies the top of your head, that frames your face and basically the first thing most people notice when they see you (unless you have some other stricking feature/s).

For me, I’ve had my hair long and short, and I was able to rock them both ways. Let’s rewind to a couple years ago. I used to wear long tresses, whether mine or the extra extra I bought at the store for a sew-in, and that was my thing. I had my hair relaxed to straighten my hair from the tender age of 7. I wore my hair that way through high school, college and even my first and second corporate jobs cause I was comfortable with it that way and it was the easiest thing for me.

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Four years ago however, something inside me decided that I needed a change. It’s said that when a woman does something drastic to her hair like cut it all off or color it fire hydrant red or even both at the same time, it’s usually because she going through some life altering situation like a break-up, divorce or even moving cross country to a place where noone knows her and this is her  opportunity to start a “new life”. For me, it was just a gal tired of the same ol’, same ol’. It was a welcomed change and there was something oddly satisying about rocking that shorter cut.

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Anyways, fast forward to the present day, and guess what? I still have a shorter hairdo. This was mostly by choice as I even got experimental with my hair all together and did a low, nearly down to the scalp bald cut. N.B: I believe every woman in her life should do this at least one. (Inserts India Arie’s – I am not my Hair  song lyrics here.) Believe me, it’s empowering. That being said though, I am at the point where that sneaky little guy Boredom and his cousin Monotony are creeping in and saying, “it’s time to switch things up again, Terri!”

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I’ve been contemplating for some time to grow my hair back to even shoulder length. During my #cutlife days, I manage to braid and do sew-ins on my shorter hair a handful of times. For me, it just never looked right or I felt it was done correctly unless I really I had a decent amount of hair on my head to supplement the style I was going for. The downsides to this too was that with braiding application, I’d find that on the shorter hairs I had, there was no commitment to the braid and my actual hair and some of them would actually just slide off. With sew-ins, I’d find that I would have to resort to full head sew-ins (which I hate as much as I do wigs), because my actual hair would be too short to have any kind or leave out or parting space for it to look natural.  Hashtag: Hairstyle Disasters: Short Hair Edition.

I know the process of regrowing my hair can take up to a year and then some, but I am willing to because I’m over this short hair for right now. What I will be looking forward to is rocking longer hairstyles as I’d definitely have more options and I can finally stop tweeting how much I miss having longer hair!

If you are thinking about cutting your hair, here are a few things to keep in mind before you do:

  1. You can’t put your hair up or in a bun if you are having a bad hair day.
  2. You’ll be limited to only short hairstyles.
  3. You’ll basically be married to your hairstylist to keep your hair trimmed and styled so you look polished all the time.
  4. If you do decide to grow it back, it won’t happen overnight.
  5. If you are someone who gets bored easily, it may not be for you.

 

When it’s all said and done, hairstyle changes are apart of every person’s life. Right now, I’m craving some longer hair to keep me company. Who knows what I’ll be rocking in another few months? Comment below if you can relate to this post or share it with a friend who is a chameleon like myself. Until next time.

 

Xoxo.